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LEGACY
Following are the writings by her grandchildren read at her memorial service on Saturday, April 3, 2004, which were read by 2 of her grandchildren Marie Revak and Iris McDowell.
The writings say it all.
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POEM FOR MOM MOM
There's really not much a man can say When he first finds out his Grandmom past away.
As Season's change and rivers flow. She watched her little grandson grow
Now the time goes by so fast I wish the time with her could last
The final thing I like to say is Gram you’re in my heart to stay
Love you forever, rest in peace
Your Grandson Wayne
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DEAR GRAM
I had a conversation with my daughter a few weeks ago. She said "How many children get to have their mother in their lives for as many years as your children have had you!" I have never really thought about that, but she was right.
You have given your children, grand children and great grand children many, many years of great memories. My most memorable moment with you was just last year, the week of your 96th birthday. You weren't getting out much any more, and one day Uncle Milt talked you into getting out for the day, he asked you where you wanted to go, and you said you wanted to see the fish pond in my back yard.
You were so proud of me for making this pond myself, and we had a great day! I will miss you every day, especially your smile. I know you are in a better place, and hopefully there is lots of Chocolate!!
Love, Geri
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MOM-MOM
When we think of mom-mom the thing that most comes to mind is her strength. She was a strong, determined, independent woman. I know we all admired that quality in her. She always shown so much thoughtfulness, concern and love to my family. I feel very blessed having grown up with her living right next door. I know for myself and my siblings her home was a place to go to just talk. There weren't candy treats to eat or toys to play with, but there was mom-mom with an ear to listen, a story to tell, and her love to give. Her home was a special place because she was always there. I will always remember the countless times that I sat in her upstairs back room watching her sew. She loved to sew and got a thrill out of being able to hem a hem, patch a hole, or take something in for one of us. I will always remember her garden that she took so much pride in, her love of cats, her listening to the police scanner, her keeping watch at the front window and doing jigsaw puzzles, to name a few. She was interesting and unique, with so much zest and spunk. I guess we thought she would live forever.
She will forever be in our hearts. We love you.
Jeanie, Sam and family.
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GRAM
I sit here, tears flowing from my eyes, trying to write a few things about my lifelong experiences with you. How can I possibly put into words the love and admiration that I have for the Matriarch of our family? So many good, bad, happy and sad times that we've shared over the years. It just seems like an impossible task to put down on paper.
Gram, your strength, wisdom, and relentlessness are the characteristics that I will always remember about you. I admire your self-sacrificing devotion to raising and guiding such a big family on your own. That is something truly special and it makes me extremely proud of you.
My loving grandmother, when you left us you took a small part of each of us with you. I wanted you to be around for me always. I even got in little heated discussions with you about your health. I apologize for that, but I just didn't want you to leave me. I know now that you needed to move on and I can accept that. It was selfish of me to want you around forever.
I LOVE YOU! I WILL MISS YOU!
THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING, GRAM.
Love, Eddie
PS: Michael, Please make sure that Gram is comfortable in her new surroundings
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GRAM
96 1/2 years goes back a long, long time. The houses on Jackson Street were built just one year before Gram moved in 212 at the age of 2. I remember watching the ice house across the street getting knocked down from her front bedroom window at 208. Gram moved off of Jackson Street for a while, to apartments on 5th & Siegel, then Passyunk Avenue. When we went to visit her, we would ring the door bell and Gram would open the 2nd floor window and toss down the keys and up the steps we would go. She would always be there at the top of the steps waiting to give everybody a kiss and a hug. When it was time to leave Gram would always give the kids a roll of pennies. Back in those days you could buy a lot of candy with 50 pennies. In 1969 the house at 214 Jackson street was purchased for Gram to come back and live where she belonged. She was so happy to be living on the street where she grew up on once again. No one ever knew that she would last 35 years in that house. She kept busy by looking out the front window watching what was going on over in the park and keeping an eye on my boys when they were playing over there. When the boys stopped in to see Gram she would give them a couple bucks. Gram always took care of the kids. She really enjoyed the nice little garden that she had in her back yard. Everyone liked to sit in the back yard with Gram. That was her favorite place. She used to sit out there and tell stories about what happened years ago. Sometimes the stories almost went back 100 years when she was a little girl. She remembered everything so well. Gram was always sharp as a tack. A couple years ago Gram faced death and died but was brought back to life by doctors, machines, and medicine. Getting well enough to come home and live by herself again. Even though the quality of life wasn’t the same as before she was still able to rock on the rocking chair, talk on the telephone, feed Tabby, sit in the yard watching the whearly gigs spinning around and even feeding the little kittens. But those few years gave us all a little more time to love and cherish her long life that she had with us all. In the last year Gram was struggling to hold on. The 96 years of living was catching up to her. For a while the only thing she wanted was to die and be at peace. Once again Gram faced death and held on to it with everything that she had and wouldn’t let go. Finally she made it through a long life. In a way I’m glad for Gram that she got to where she wanted to be. Total peace and quiet, no more pain. We will always love you and remember you until the day we die. May God bless you. And Gram rest in peace forever and ever.
Love, Paulie
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GRAM
Words cannot describe how much you mean to me. You gave me your precious love so unselfishly, and so many treasured memories like: doing puzzles for hours, fixing broken lamps, making Christmas decorations, sitting out back enjoying your beautiful garden with all the whirlee birds and taking me for rides on top of your vacuum cleaner when I was a child.
When you asked "how are you?", you really meant it. I'll never forget the long hours we spent in your kitchen, you talking about the good old days. Us laughing, crying, and sharing our deepest secrets to each other.
The touch of your soft clothes when you gave me a big hug and kiss, then you would say I love you. Which in my heart I knew. Those words were so special to me, for your love was genuine and unconditional.
A piece of my heart is gone, but my love for you will always carry on. God bless you. I'll miss you and I'll always love you.
Love, Kathy
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POEM
The following poem was read at her memorial service by her granddaughter Iris McDowell.
Mom
The last two years were hard for you You couldn’t do what you used to do Your dependence on your children started to grow Your desire to live was slipping low
We all have our appointed time to die I thank The Lord that yours was with me by your side You didn’t struggle, you didn’t fight You told the doctor you were going to see the light
It came so easy to give you back What you gave to me - that was love, unconditionally I don’t know what I’ll do with you gone It will be so hard to carry on
The quality you gave me that I treasure most Is that you taught me to put the other first You never said "this is what you do" I got it from just following you
I’ll miss you Mom, with all my heart After many long years, we have to part My last look at you was your dying face In my heart, no one could ever take your place
Love you forever, Helen
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